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Marriage and relationship counselling is ideal for those seeking answers to issues plaguing their marriage or relationship. However, often the answers come in a form you might not be quite ready to accept. For example when married couples or those who have been in a relationship for some time, go to counselling, they may well want the psychologist or counsellor to choose who is right and who is wrong. But rarely is this the case. Read on to learn a little more about the theory of counselling approaches, but first .....

The issue is not so much a matter of who is right and who is wrong but more how couples are dealing with the issues that arise in their relationship or marriage. This can be easily seen when it comes to feelings. How often do we hear "You made me angry"! The truth is nobody has that kind of power. One of the hardest yet most rewarding lessons in life is to realise we control our own emotions, no matter how much we feel that it is the other person's fault.

"You made me angry!"

"Well don't give me that kinda power - own your own feelings!"

Marriage and Relationship counselling can help you 'own' your own feelings

So one of the main lessons is to own our own feelings. It takes a bit of practise but it's worth it and very powerful. It then takes away the need for someone to be right and someone to be wrong.

Another powerful lesson is to look at the pattern of behaviours we set up in our lives, our marraiges, our relationships. It becomes quiet amazing when you start to see patterns in your behaviour that you have become comfortable with. Believe it or not people can grow comfortable with anger and hate.

Let's take someone who has grown up feeling not wanted. You may have felt unloved as a child, treated badly growing up or feeling as though you were never good enough. When this type of thing occurs it can leave the person with low self esteem. When this has occurred over a long period, most of your life in fact, it becomes familiar. As weird as it sounds, the idea of not going around with low self esteem would be quite foreign. When you hear this type of information for the first time it does seem a little crazy. We all like to think we can control our feelings (except when we have that allusion of blaming someone else for how we feel!), so how could someone 'choose' to go around with low self esteem? Marriage and relationship counselling can help uncover our true motives of behaviour, whether it be low self-esteem, feeling unloved - all those sort of inner feelings that can often be hard to decipher or explain until we get professional help. Once what 'drives' us has been discovered, we can start to uncover how we operate - including identifying the type of people we attract into our lives and the behaviours we set up that may lead to an unsatisfactory marriage or relationship.

Why does everyone keep treating me like I'm a punching bag? Anybody would think I look like one!

In summary, marriage and relationship counselling can help identfy underlying thought patterns and feelings that drive our life. It really is life changing to begin to understand how we think and feel and how that may be influencing our choices in life. It is very empowering to then know we have the ability to change the direction our life can head in. It doesn't necessarily mean leaving a relationship, it could mean empowering ourselves through better decision making and having greater ownership of our thoughts and feelings.

As much as marriage and relationship counselling can give you handy advice, it works so much better when you are more secure within yourslef.

Would you like to know more?

Option 1 "My New Life"

I have available an 'e-book' (a book you download online and read on the computer or print). Amongst other things, it details the process of 'projection' . Projection is a very common human trait, no doubt something we picked up as children, because when we are young it is easier to blame than to take responsibility for our lives - our thoughts and feelings. It's not uncommon to have children say "it wasn't my fault!". We often take this with us into adult life, into our marriage and other personal relationships. As mentioned previously we can blame others for how we are feeling. It's a fairly natural process. You know one of the biggest bug bears teachers have in the class and playground is getting children to take responsiblity for their actions, particularly when things go wrong.

The idea of projction sets up a cycle of behaviours that my e-book also details. When things start to go wrong in our marriage or personal relationship, thoughts get triggered along with feelings. Then we can start to project onto those we believe are hurting us in our marriage (husband or wife) or in our personal relationship (partner, girlfriend, boyfriend) and that can lead to blaming, and from there the need for someone to be wrong and someone to be right, is set up. It's a pattern that we can get used to in our marriage or personal relationship, especially as time goes by and we become more comfortable with it.

The e-book "My New Life" also comes with an audio so that you can download it and play it on your media player (iPod, mp3 player etc).

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Option 2 "My New Life" full day workshop
(For those living in Western Australia)

Mark has monthly full day workshops for couples in marriages and relationships, seeking ways to improve their relationships through better communication techniques and learning how to really understand their wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend or partner.

Set in tranquil sourroundings, this full day workshop encourages you to explore your relationship or marriage, yourself and your partner.

Refreshments and lunch are all inclusive.

This workshop will change your life and improve your relationship -
or you will get your money back!

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